My Perfect Imperfections
In the past, I would have said that I have come to terms with my body, and simply learned to accept it for what it is. But nowadays I am starting to love all of my perfect imperfections.
It took staring at myself in the mirror and saying "you are beautiful" even when the clothes I was in made me feel otherwise. Or looking at myself straight out of the shower and telling myself that it's not just okay that "you don't look like an Instagram model," "it's even better."
Even in the 7th grade I remember praying each night that God would increase my A cup to a B cup. I researched plastic surgery options, hoping to find a way to transform my flat figure into one worthy of admiration. But looking back on that period of my life, there were times that I was uncomfortable with myself because I wasn't even comfortable in my own skin.
Fortunately, I've come a long way since that time. I still have my insecurities here and there- everyone does, but I've stopped allowing others to define my perception of beauty. Which means loving my sultry shoulders, my collar bone that refuses to go unnoticed, my slim hips, and small boo-tay. All of it is beautiful. All of it is perfect. All of it is me.
I like this look because the frills and embroidered trim adds some spice to this simple top while keeping in tone with the outfit's playful attitude. There are just some outfits that make you feel good about yourself and can't nobody tell you nothing. Hair poppin, melanin poppin, I'M POPPIN. I think everyone deserves an outfit that makes them feel a million bucks. Whatever your is, find some time to put it on and strut your stuff, even if it's just for your bathroom mirror.
Amarachi. Ama. Amalive
Top (actually a romper): Honey Peaches
Skirt: American Apparel
Wedges: PacSun
Necklace: Forever 21
Bag: H&M
📷 // Desteny Edwards (Twitter: @dmae_98)